TIPS FOR PARENTS

TEACH YOUR CHILDREN:

* Their full names, addresses, and telephone numbers.
* How to make a long distance phone call (both directly to you by using the area code and by
   dialing "0" for the operator).
* Never to go into anyone's home without your permission. Children should know whose
   home they are allowed to enter.
* Not to look for you if they become separated from you while shopping, but to go to the nearest
    checkout counter and ask the clerk for assistance. They should be told never to go into the
    parking lot.
* To walk and play with others. A child is most vulnerable when alone. If your child walks to school,
    have him or her walk with other children.
* That adults do not usually ask children for directions. If someone should stop a car asking for
    directions, the child shouldn't go near the car.
* To go to a place where there are other people of someone is following them, to a neighbor's home
   or into a store. They should not try to hide behind bushes.
* Never go near a car with someone in it. Never get into a car without asking permission.
   They should know whose car they are allowed to ride in. Warn your children that someone
   might try to lure them into a car by saying that you said to pick them up. Tell them never to
   obey such instructions. Have a "secret" word, known only to you and your child.
* That a stranger is someone they and you do not know very well.
* Not to tell anyone over the telephone that they are home alone. Not to open the door without a
   parents permission.
* To tell you if any adults asks them to keep a "secret".

AS PARENTS YOU SHOULD:

* Know who your children's friends are. Know their parents and talk to them.
* Never leave children unattended. Never leave children alone in the car.
* Be involved in your child's activities.
* Listen when your child tells you he or she doesn't want to be with someone. There may be
   a reason you should know about.
* Notice when someone shows your child a great deal of attention and find out why.
* Have your child's fingerprints taken. Know where to locate dental records.
* Be sensitive to changes in your child's behavior and attitudes. Encourage open communication.
   Never belittle any fears or concerns.
* Take a photograph of your child each year (4 times a year if the child is under 2 years of age).
* Have a set plan with your child outlining what he or she should do if you become separated while
   away from home.
* Do not buy items that have your child's name on them such as hats, jackets, and tee-shirts. An
   abductor could start up a friendly conversation with your child after reading and using the child's
   name.
* Be sure your children's school or day care centers will not release children to anyone but the
   children's parents or persons designated by the parents. Instruct the school to contact you if
   your child is absent.